Creating Trust in a Distrustful World

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You know, it’s really ironic when we stop to think about it.

As business owners, we work hard to create a great “X” (program, product or service), announce it to our database list and the world and sit back wondering why few, if anyone, invest.

And yet when we’re on the other side of that table, considering investing in something, we scrutinize every word on the info/sales page, ask ourselves what we know about the person (Do we like their social media posts?  Are they consistent with their newsletters/email communications? Etc.) and whether our intuition tells us we can trust them.

It’s the case of the double-edged sword.

We want trust and yet are loathe to give it as easily as we want it.

So what’s the answer to creating trust with your prospective clients? 

There’s no one single answer. . .at a minimum, you want a mixture of the below:

  1. Familiarity breeds trust — the more familiar with you and your business your prospects are, the more likely they are to trust you.  Science has shown that familiarity actually rewires our brain so that we prefer what’s familiar to us.  We must be consistent, relevant and helpful in our communications with prospective clients in order to gain, and keep, their trust.
  2. Be yourself and chart your own path — don’t worry about what everyone else is doing/charging.  Be yourself and those who resonate with you will invest with you and, if you provide Extreme Client Care™, they’ll not only invest, they’ll reinvest and refer.
  3. Affinity/Referrals — We’re more likely to trust those who come to us from referrals (our friends, colleagues, etc.) or from others who are like us and have similar goals, challenges and lifestyles.

The above speaks both to people and relationships as well as “things”.  For example, if you use standard credit logos on your site, people are more likely to trust making an investment with you.  Or if you belong to groups/associations/communities which they recognize and respect, you earn more of their trust as a result of that association.  (You can learn more about website/online trust enhancers/indicators here.)

And if our prospective clients have had a poor experience with someone else, it’s going to take them longer to trust, no matter how authentic and *real* we are.

Creating and building trust is a never-ending process — once you’ve built trust with your clients, it’s your responsibility to keep it by providing great service and keeping the communication channels open.

I’d love to hear your experiences and thoughts below. . .

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  • http://www.getoutofstuck.net Roberta Budvietas

    So right about trust. I wonder if the trust issue has always been so great or is it only over the last decade we have become less trusting of other. Interesting twist on familiarity breeds. One thing about social media we trust the people who we see most often in the media until we deal with them and decide they are untrustworthy

  • http://www.buildafreelancebiz.com/ David Sylvester

    I think about this a lot. A lot of developing trust is very personal. I have found that my wife and I often disagree on whom we “trust” on the internet, although we don’t disagree as much about whom we trust in the real world.

    I think the problem is that in lieu of the many cues we receive when talking to a real person, we fill in the blanks when it comes to people we know only online. This is problem generally when it comes to the written word. When trying to determine whether I trust someone online I only have what that person has chosen to present to me. For instance, I have a person’s words and use of language, the visual presentation of their website or blog (if they have them), possibly an avatar (in my case, my cat – despite recommendations to not use your cat), online behavior (frequency of emails, etc…), and the familiarity of encountering them over time on the internet. 

    Sometimes I get a bad feeling about the person based on their website graphics. If I get too many emails after signing up to a newsletter, I become suspicious. I have a bias that leads me to trust women more readily than men. And I trust people older than me more readily than I trust someone younger than me. No one can control what the reader (or viewer) brings to a situation. Through no fault of his own, a younger man has a more difficult gaining my trust than an older woman. I suspect this is the case with most people. 

    I know of someone online (a woman who is older than me, in this case) who I have thought well of for some time. Then she started to write some fairly critical posts directed at individuals using their real names. I agreed with her point, but found her tone to be scary and intimidating. I was put off, but she also received a lot of support for her candor and passion. 

    I have concluded that it’s best to simply be yourself and not give excessive concern that some may not trust us. Not everyone will like what you put out there, and there is little that can be done about it if you are honest and ethical. Put your best foot forward. Don’t do things that are obviously going to put people off – like attacking anyone by name(!). Things like providing exception customer service can help to win over those who may not be predisposed to trust you. Revealing one’s failings and frailties also helps build trust.